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It’s A Lesson


When you constantly feel like your life is going in circles and nothing is changing or getting better, it’s because it is going in circles.

You analyse your “shit” and see what needs improvement.

You make lists and flimsy attempts to repair old damage and create new platforms to hoist yourself up to, but you fail fail fail.

You begin to feel sorry for yourself.

You ask others why things aren’t getting better.

They don’t have the damn answers, you dolt.  You have all the answers.  You were born with them.  It’s your life, you have to put forward the real and difficult changes needed to break out of that circle and create a new future.

Or continue to sit in your circle playing footsie with yourself wondering why your life sucks.

It’s as if you are still in school and you got lazy and cocky thinking you knew all the answers so you didn’t need to study. You get in and take the test and fail miserably and next year wonder why you have to take algebra over again.

Get it? Its all like that. A lesson. Learn it. Move on to the next one.

Thank you.

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  • Kay August 10th, 2009 at 9:19 pm #1

    I know that *I* have the answers, no one else does.

    But does anyone remember where I HID the answers??? Because I sure as hell can’t find them.

  • Hope August 10th, 2009 at 11:05 pm #2

    Oh Kay, I thinking Im beginning to just love you…..oh what am I saying I loved before I “met” you.

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